Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed
by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern
what is the will of God—what is good and acceptable and perfect.
— Romans 12:2
This Lenten season is an invitation to open our minds to God’s light and presence. To be changed in our minds. On Thursdays, we focus on opening our minds.
Let’s begin with language. Author Chris Blachut suggests to change your conversational style from either/or to both/and. Eliminate binaries. Become aware of phrases such as “but” or “however” which are conditional and negate everything that precedes them. Eliminate “but” and “however.” Instead, use “Yes, and…” or “Interesting, and…” This acknowledges whatever has been shared with you, and allows you to further explore the concept or idea.
Ask yourself better questions. Blachut also noted, “Asking and answering the right questions is like getting signal on your phone’s GPS when you’re lost. It changes your mind and your direction.” The Ignatian movement’s discernment and decision-making practice involves asking questions and praying deeply. Learn more at https://www.ignatianspirituality.com/making-good-decisions. Simon Sinek’s work on “finding our why” is another excellent exercise in exploring deep questions about what motivates us and gives us a sense of purpose and worth. He also advises that you ask people who know you well (not family, though) to reflect about your passions, values, gifts, talents, and strengths.
What might God reveal to us, if we allow new perceptions to visit us? — Rev Gail
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Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
― George Bernard Shaw
… there are moments when one has to choose between living one’s own life, fully, entirely, completely—or dragging out some false, shallow, degrading existence that the world in its hypocrisy demands. You have that moment now. Choose! ― Oscar Wilde