Sun, Feb 6: Worship with Communion
Reflections on journeys at the shore: fishing, trusting, and trying something new
The two, fish and God, go together like fish and water. —Brian McLaren
We have learned to fly the air like birds and swim the sea like fish, but we have not learned the simple art of living together as brothers. — Martin Luther King Jr.
Many men go fishing all of their lives without knowing that it is not fish they are after. — Henry David Thoreau
One thing becomes clearer as one gets older and one’s fishing experience increases, and that is the paramount importance of one’s fishing companions. — John Ashley Cooper
Fishing is not an escape from life, but often a deeper immersion into it. —Harry Middleton
Learn to trust the journey, even when you do not understand it. — Lolly Daskal
SONGS about BEING CALLED by LOVE:
- Beautiful by Caryl Mack (pop): https://youtu.be/1-Y5iuol8HA
- You Say by Lauren Daigle (Christian): https://youtu.be/sIaT8Jl2zpI
- Spiritual Revolutionary by Nabil & Karim (rap ballad): https://youtu.be/Ohb49QRkkL0
- Better than a Hallelujah by Amy Grant (Christian): https://youtu.be/Rm5kx3xqmg0
- Waiting on the World to Change by John Mayer (rock): https://youtu.be/oBIxScJ5rlY
- Hero by Mariah Carey (pop): https://youtu.be/0IA3ZvCkRkQ
- Lean on Me by Bill Withers (rock): https://youtu.be/Jrlhn1H1EWw
- Man in the Mirror by Michael Jackson (rock): https://youtu.be/PivWY9wn5ps
- One Love by Bob Marley (reggae): https://youtu.be/vdB-8eLEW8g
- Same Love by Macklemore & Ryan Lewis ft Mary Lambert (pop): https://youtu.be/hlVBg7_08n0
- Rise Up by Andra Day (pop): https://youtu.be/lwgr_IMeEgA
- Change by Christina Aguilera (pop): https://youtu.be/OBSghlH0JgM
- Where Is the Love by Black-Eyed Peas (rock/rap): https://youtu.be/WpYeekQkAdc
- Love Like This by Lauren Daigle (Christian): https://youtu.be/Br1q_i1RHPU
- Enough by Koryn Hawthorne (pop): https://youtu.be/kqavwKIvtk4
- The Road by Havasi (instrumental): https://youtu.be/WUsQbri9yaI
- Love Me Now by John Legend (pop): https://youtu.be/NmCFY1oYDeM
- You’re Gonna Be OK by Brian & Jenn Johnson (pop): https://youtu.be/LjF9IqvXDjY
- Fix You by Cold Play (pop): https://youtu.be/k4V3Mo61fJM
- No Matter What by Calum Scott (ballad): https://youtu.be/kBIhqNT5gsE
- Someone You Loved by Lewis Capaldi (pop): https://youtu.be/yp6yNFTCrAU
- What Are Words by Chris Medina (pop): https://youtu.be/nQY4dIxY1H4
- Into the Sea by Tasha Layton (Christian): https://youtu.be/8HznXBBCdBE
SONGS about FISHING:
- Just Fishin by Trace Adkins (country): https://youtu.be/IheODRwalEw
- Gone Fishin’ by Chris Rae (ballad): https://youtu.be/Wt0nFwtQZGc
- More Time Fishin’ by Thomas Rhett (country): https://youtu.be/9EuQhvZk6zs
- With Every Wish by Bruce Springsteen (rock): https://youtu.be/1x_xkn-T5SM
- Pray for the Fish by Randy Travis (country): https://youtu.be/-bH2DUXOa6s
- Catfish Boogie by Tennessee Ernie Ford (boogie): https://youtu.be/U1mmuLSA4hw
- The Fishing Hole by Darryl Worley (Andy Griffith theme song – country): https://youtu.be/jR7rWvj5s4k
- Fishing in the Dark by Nitty Gritty Band (country): https://youtu.be/8u7-Ht05v2M
- I’m Gonna Go Fishin‘ by Mel Torme (jazz): https://youtu.be/FTYnfU9CJEc
- Talking Fishing Blues by Woody Guthrie (blues): https://youtu.be/hH618RszIlM
- Deep River Blues by Doc Watson (blues): https://youtu.be/6VAbrnjdtYw
- Gone Fishin’ by Bing Crosby & Louis Armstrong (croon): https://youtu.be/YDeQzjKHaeE
- A Country Boy Can Survive by Hank Williams Jr (country): https://youtu.be/3cQNkIrg-Tk
- Fish by Craig Campbell (country): https://youtu.be/M_Am8bSYIms
- Mind on Fishin’ by Trace Adkins (country): https://youtu.be/LNS65db6jDg
- Shut Up and Fish by Maddie & Tae (country): https://youtu.be/-lH54eA4i8s
- Catch All the Fish by Brad Paisley (country): https://youtu.be/Y3RO7LtH7GU
- Huntin, Fishin and Lovin’ Every Day by Luke Bryan (country): https://youtu.be/6l3ukWqRU4s
- Fisherman’s Blues by The Waterboys (blues): https://youtu.be/a4UQJwd3awQ
- Livin’ Part of Life by Eric Church (country): https://youtu.be/CldD6Vg1GvY
- I’ll Probably Be Out Fishin’ by Toby Keith (country): https://youtu.be/3vgD88g_B8I
- Fish Weren’t Bitin’ by Craig Morgan (country): https://youtu.be/7P7HLE7vgcM
- Fish and Whistle by John Prine (country): https://youtu.be/WNuuBfWFYvQ
- A Song about Fishing by Genesis Owusu (indie?): https://youtu.be/YYydDAObI_A
- Fishin’ Blues by Taj Mahal (blues/country): https://youtu.be/iQC2_NJj2iA
- Bad Day of Fishin’ by Billy Currington (country): https://youtu.be/GIsXsJ9xDqE
- Bait a Hook by Justin Moore (country): https://youtu.be/1XB2peAKwOA
- The Gospel (according to Fishermen) by Tyler Childers (blues): https://youtu.be/SfM8OHORXBQ
- I’m Gonna Miss Her by Brad Paisley (country): https://youtu.be/WwRrKaq0IyYThe Fi
PRAYER — Garrison Keillor
Thank you, dear God, for this good life and forgive us if we do not love it enough. Thank you for the rain. And for the chance to wake up in three hours and go fishing: I thank you for that now, because I won’t feel so thankful then.
THE REAL WORK
— Wendell Berry
It may be that when
we no longer know what to do
we have come to our real work,
and that when
we no longer know which way to go
we have come to our real journey.
The mind that is not baffled
is not employed.
The impeded stream
is the one that sings.
The FISH— Mary Oliver
The first fish
I ever caught
would not lie down
quiet in the pail
but flailed and sucked
at the burning
amazement of the air
and died
in the slow pouring off
of rainbows. Later
I opened his body and separated
the flesh from the bones
and ate him. Now the sea
is in me: I am the fish, the fish
glitters in me; we are
risen, tangled together, certain to fall
back to the sea. Out of pain,
and pain, and more pain
we feed this feverish plot, we are nourished
by the mystery.
Darest thou now O soul,
Walk out with me toward the unknown region,
Where neither ground is for the feet nor any path to follow?
No map there, nor guide,
Nor voice sounding, nor touch of human hand,
Nor face with blooming flesh, nor lips, nor eyes, are in that land.
I know it not O soul,
Nor dost thou, all is a blank before us,
All waits undream’d of in that region, that inaccessible land.
Till when the ties loosen,
All but the ties eternal, Time and Space,
Nor darkness, gravitation, sense, nor any bounds bounding us.
Then we burst forth, we float,
In Time and Space O soul, prepared for them,
Equal, equipt at last, (O joy! O fruit of all!) them to fulfil O soul.
– Walt Whitman
Of FISHING & FISHERFOLK
Great fish do not swim in shallow waters. — Matshona Dhliwayo
The stream at the end of your street can be a place where you make contact with this whole other amazing world hidden right there beneath the surface. Fishing can be the passport to that world. — Jeremy Wade
All goes back to the earth, and so I do not desire pride of excess or power, but the contentments made by men who have had little: the fisherman’s silence receiving the river’s grace, the gardener’s musing on rows… — Wendell Berry
The fishermen know that the sea is dangerous and the storm terrible, but they have never found these dangers sufficient reason for remaining ashore. — Vincent Van Gogh
Fishermen own the fish they catch, but they do not own the ocean. — Etienne Schneider
The water is a dark flower and a fisherman is a bee in the heart of her. ― Annie Proulx
The creative act is a letting down of the net of human imagination into the ocean of chaos on which we are suspended, and the attempt to bring out of it ideas. It is the night sea journey, the lone fisherman on a tropical sea with his nets, and you let these nets down – sometimes, something tears through them that leaves them in shreds and you just row for shore, and put your head under your bed and pray. At other times what slips through are the minutiae, the minnows of this ichthyological metaphor of idea chasing. But, sometimes, you can actually bring home something that is food, food for the human community that we can sustain ourselves on and go forward. ― Terence McKenna
The most shameful occupations are those which cater to our sensual pleasures: fish-sellers, butchers, cooks, poultry-raisers and fishermen. — Cicero
Some go to church and think about fishing, others go fishing and think about God. — Tony Blake
I fish to scratch the surface of those mysteries, for nearness to the beautiful, and to reassure myself the world remains. — Carl Safina.
A fish only begins to realize its potential the moment you throw it in deep waters. — Matshona Dhliwayo.
A river is honored for its fish, not its size — Matshona Dhliwayo
When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain. — Mark Twain
Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.— Maimonides
I want everybody to go jump in the ocean to see for themselves how beautiful it is, how important it is to get acquainted with fish swimming in the ocean, rather than just swimming with lemon slices and butter.”- Sylvia Earle.I still don’t know why I fish or why others fish, except that we like it and it makes us think and feel. — Roderick Haig- Brown
The act of fishing – for fish, dreams, or whatever magic is available – is enough. It transports us to a special world, and a state of mind, where we are free. — Fennel Hudson
If people concentrated on the really important things in life, there’d be a shortage of fishing poles. — Doug Larson
Fishing is much more than fish. It is the great occasion when we may return to the fine simplicity of our forefathers. — Herbert Hoover
I’ve gone fishing thousands of times in my life, and I have never once felt unlucky or poorly paid for those hours on the water. — William Tapply
One thing becomes clearer as one gets older and one’s fishing experience increases, and that is the paramount importance of one’s fishing companions. — John Ashley Cooper
Fishing is not an escape from life, but often a deeper immersion into it. — Harry Middleton.I
f I fished only to capture fish, my fishing trips would have ended long ago. — Zane Grey.
I go fishing not to find myself but to lose myself. — Joseph Monniger
I only hope the fish will take half as much trouble for me as I’ve taken for them. — Rudyard Kipling
The fishing was good; it was the catching that was bad. — A.K. Best
Most of the world is covered by water. A fisherman’s job is simple: Pick out the best parts. — Charles Waterman
Be patient and calm – for no one can catch fish in anger. — Herbert Hoover
Do not tell fish stories where the people know you. Particularly, don’t tell them where they know the fish. — Mark Twain
The charm of fishing is that it is the pursuit of something that is elusive but attainable, a perpetual series of occasions for hop. — John Bucha
Fishing is a discipline in the equality of men – for all men are equal before fish. — Herbert HooverIf I were not African, I wonder whether it would be clear to me that Africa is a place where the people do not need limp gifts of fish but sturdy fishing rods and fair access to the pond. I wonder whether I would realize that while African nations have a failure of leadership, they also have dynamic people with agency and voices. — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Fishing provides that connection with the whole living world. It gives you the opportunity of being totally immersed, turning back into yourself in a good way. A form of meditation, some form of communion with levels of yourself that are deeper than the ordinary self. — Ted Hughes
People still do not understand that a live fish is more valuable than a dead one, and that destructive fishing techniques are taking a wrecking ball to biodiversity. — Sylvia Earle
Food production is ripping the living world apart. Fishing and farming are, by a long way, the greatest cause of extinction and loss of the diversity and abundance of wildlife. Farming is a major cause of climate breakdown, the biggest cause of river pollution and a hefty source of air pollution. — George Monbiot
Fishing is a hard job. Fishing at night. Rain. Day, night. You have to be wise and smart. And quick. — Mariano Rivera
The industrial way we fish for seafood is harming the marine habitats that all ocean life depends upon. Indiscriminate commercial fishing practices that include miles of driftnets, long lines with thousands of lethal hooks and bottom trawls are ruining ocean ecosystems by killing non-seafood species, including sea turtles and marine mammals. — Ted Danson
Environmentalists aren’t nearly sensitive enough to the fact that they are messing around with struggling people and their livelihoods. They forget that the fishermen are the people with the most immediate vested interest in having a healthy sea. — Mark Kurlansky
Chefs are at the end of a long chain of individuals who work hard to feed people. Farmers, beekeepers, bakers, scientists, fishermen, grocers, we are all part of that chain, all food people, all dedicated to feeding the world. — Jose Andres
The charm of fishing is that it is the pursuit of what is elusive but attainable, a perpetual series of occasions of hope. — John Buchan
One of the ways I practice contemplation in my life is through fishing. It’s the place and the space where I find a real connection through the ocean, the waves, the sound of the water, the birds diving, and the struggle with the adversary, which is the fish. — Barbara Holmes
You think of its speed, its floating, flashing body seen through the water…If I made fins and eyes and scales, I would arrest its movement, give a pattern or shape of reality. I want just the flash of its spirit.— Constantin Brancusi
FALLING in LOVE
— Attributed to Fr. Pedro Arrupe, SJ
Nothing is more practical than
finding God, than
falling in Love
in a quite absolute, final way.
What you are in love with,
what seizes your imagination, will affect everything.
It will decide
what will get you out of bed in the morning,
what you do with your evenings,
how you spend your weekends,
what you read, whom you know,
what breaks your heart,
and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.
Fall in Love, stay in love,
and it will decide everything.
Commentary on BEING CALLED
Christianity did not begin with a confession. It began with an invitation into friendship, into creating a new community, into forming relationships based on love and service. ― Diana Butler Bass The Sacred Call is transformative. It is an invitation to our souls, a mysterious voice reverberating within, a tug on our hearts that can neither be ignored nor denied. It contains, by definition, the purest message and promise of essential freedom. It touches us at the center of our awareness. When such a call occurs and we hear it – really hear it – our shift to higher consciousness is assured. — David A. Cooper The followers of Christ have been called to peace. … And they must not only have peace but also make it. And to that end they renounce all violence and tumult. In the cause of Christ nothing is to be gained by such methods. … His disciples keep the peace by choosing to endure suffering themselves rather than inflict it on others. They maintain fellowship where others would break it off. They renounce hatred and wrong. In so doing they over-come evil with good, and establish the peace of God in the midst of a world of war and hate. — Dietrich Bonhoeffer The Peace of God — William Alexander Percy The Cost of Discipleship The peace of God, it is no peace, but strife closed in the sod. Yet let us pray for but one thing- the marvelous peace of God. |
On TRUST
He who does not trust enough will not be trusted. — Lao Tzu
Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string. — Ralph Waldo Emerson
Trust, but verify. — Ronald Reagan
Have enough courage o trust love one more time and always one more time. — Maya Angelou
You must trust and believe in people or life becomes impossible. — Anton Chekhov
Men trust their ears less than their eyes. — Herodotus
Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarily based on mutual trust.— Albert Einstein
We’re paying the highest tribute you can pay a man. We trust him to do right. It’s that simple.— Harper Lee
The inability to open up to hope is what blocks trust, and blocked trust is the reason for blighted dreams. — Elizabeth Gilbert
Only those you trust can betray you.— Terry Goodkind
Faith does not need to push the river because faith is able to trust that there is a river. The river is flowing. We are in it. — Richard Rohr
It is mutual trust, even more than mutual interest that holds human associations together. — H.L. Mencken
As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Take no one’s word for anything, including mine – but trust your experience. — James Baldwin
You must train your intuition — you must trust the small voice inside you which tells you exactly what to say, what to decide. — Ingrid Bergman
Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity. — Kahlil Gibran
Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God. — Corie ten Boom
Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement. — Alfred Adler
Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.— Stephen Covey
COMMENTARY on the STORY of CALLING FISHERFOLK
We may need to remind ourselves of this obvious fact: not everyone is called to leave the boats and nets, to leave family and place. The vast majority of us are called to stay where we are as we serve God. — Melissa Bane Sevier
He grew up, this Jesus of Nazareth, left his home, and found some, let’s be honest, rather unimpressive characters to follow him. Fishermen, Tax collectors, sex workers, homeless women with no teeth, people from bad neighborhoods … If you think I’m kidding…read it for yourselves. These people were questionable at best. So, with his little band of misfits Jesus went about the countryside turning water to wine, eating with all the wrong people, casting out demons, angering the religious establishment and insisting that in him the kingdom of God had come near, that through him the world according to God was coming right to us. He touched the unclean and used spit and dirt to heal the blind and said crazy destabilizing things like the first shall be last and the last shall be first, and sell all you have and give it to the poor. And the thing that really cooked people’s noodles wasn’t the question “is Jesus like God” it was “what if God is like Jesus”. What if God is not who we thought? What if the most reliable way to know God is not through religion, not through a reward and punishment program, but through a person. What if the most reliable way to know God is to look at how God chose to reveal God’s self in Jesus? — Nadia Bolz-Weber
Everybody who knew anything about fishing in Jesus’ day knew you didn’t go fishing with [Simon] Peter’s kind of nets in daylight. Fish could see and avoid them. Also, everybody who knew anything about fishing in the Sea of Galilee knew you didn’t catch fish with these kinds of nets in deep water. They were most effective for fish near the surface. On top of that, everybody who knew anything about fishing in those days knew you needed to be fishing at night or in the dusk of dawn and sunset. You weren’t going to catch anything at the time of day Jesus was speaking to the crowds! … What makes Jesus’ command all the more interesting, Simon Peter knew fishing … Fishing was Peter’s life. Fishing was Peter’s livelihood. He fished every day. He knew how to catch fish. He earned his living catching fish. He took care of his wife and family catching fish. He had partners with whom he fished regularly. So Peter knew what Jesus was asking was crazy, yet… When Peter obeyed, look what happened! They caught fish! They caught a lot of fish. They caught a boat-sinking amount of fish. Bottom line, it was the wrong time, wrong place, and wrong nets to catch fish. But… Peter obeyed, and nets started breaking. Buddies begin helping. Boats begin sinking. Every fisherman’s dream catch is happening! — Phil Ware
This metaphor, despite the grand old tradition of missionary interpretation, does not refer to the “saving of souls,” as if Jesus were conferring upon these men instant evangelist status. Rather, the image is carefully chosen from Jeremiah 16:16, where it is used as a symbol of Yahweh’s censure of Israel. Elsewhere the “hooking of fish” is a euphemism for judgment upon the rich (Am 4:2) and powerful (Ez 29:4). Taking this mandate for his own, Jesus is inviting common folk to join him in his struggle to overturn the existing order of power and privilege …The point here is that following Jesus requires not just assent of the heart, but a fundamental reordering of socio-economic relationships. The first step in dismantling the dominant social order is to overturn the “world” of the disciple: in the kingdom, the personal and the political are one… This is not a call “out” of the world, but into an alternative social practice. — Ched Myers
In a democratic world, we do not talk about reigns any more than we talk about kingdoms. But we do talk a whole lot about “culture”! So I suggest: “The time is fulfilled, and the culture of God has come near; repent, and believe in the good news.” What does it mean to distinguish God’s culture from human cultures? What does it mean to be “called out” (Gr: ekklesia, “church”) of conventional human culture and to begin to be disciples of the one who brings God’s culture near to us? Why is this such good news? — Paul Nuechterlein
We know that at this time the fishing industry was being steadily restructured for export, so that the majority of fish were salt preserved or made into a fish sauce and shipped to distant markets throughout the empire. All fishing had become state-regulated for the benefit of the urban elite—either Greeks or Romans who had settled in Palestine following military conquest or Jews connected with the Herodian family. They profited from the fishing industry in two ways. First, they controlled the sale of fishing leases, without which locals could not fish. These rights, and often capitalization as well, were normally awarded not to individuals, but to local kinship-based “cooperatives” (Gk koinōnoi)—such as the brothers Simon and Andrew or the Zebedee family we meet in Mk 1:16-20. Second, they taxed the fish product and its processing, and levied tolls on product transport. Local administrators handled royal leases, contracts and taxes—such as “Levi son of Alphaeus,” whom we meet in Mk 2:14.
This transformation of the local economy, made possible by the infrastructural improvements (roads, harbors and processing factories) carried out by the Herodians, functioned to marginalize and impoverish formerly self-sufficient native fishing families. Leases, taxes and tolls were exorbitant, while the fish upon which local people depended as a dietary staple was extracted for export. Thus fishermen were falling to the bottom of an increasingly elaborate economic hierarchy. Elites looked down on them, even as they depended upon their labor. — Ched Myers
Kingdom is a verb to which I submit, an ever-changing call to conversion, a constant learning of a new language of trust, a stumbling into a new ‘language and doing’ in a new place. Then, sometimes, of words of the church resonate with a clarity which silences all babel. For a moment there is a resting place. But it is not home. The journey begins again. Kingdom, repentance, and belief, are all journey. — Andrew Prior
… we must avoid imagining individuals who ‘go to work… Fishing was an important part of the Galilean economy in the first century. But it was not the “free enterprise” which modern readers of the New Testament may imagine. Even fishers who may have owned their own boats were part of a state regulated, elite-profiting enterprise, and a complex web of economic relationships. These are symptoms of an “embedded economy.” That is to say, economies in the ancient Mediterranean were not independent systems with “free markets,” free trade, stock exchanges, monetization, and the like, as one finds in modern capitalist systems. Rather, only political and kinship systems were explicit social domains; economics and religion were conceptualized, controlled, and sustained either by the political hierarchy or kin-groups … fishermen received capitalization along with fishing rights, and were therefore indebted to local brokers responsible for the harbors and for fishing leases. The location of Levi’s toll office in Capernaum—an important fishing locale—probably identifies him as just such a contractor of royal fishing rights… — KC Hanson
Reflections on being lost and being where you belong
All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.
— JRR Tolkien
Here every bird and fish knew its course. Every tree had its own place upon this earth. Only man had lost his way. ― Margaret Craven
We’re not lost. We’re just headed somewhere different.
― Emily X.R. Pan
We all seek for lost things within us. ― Toba Beta
Remember your name. Do not lose hope —what you seek will be found. ― Neil Gaiman
SONGS about BEING LOST and BEING WHERE YOU BELONG:
- Lost by Dermot Kennedy (Celtic): https://youtu.be/oK9wqtAwnoE
- See You Again by Whiz Khalifa (pop/rap): https://youtu.be/RgKAFK5djSk
- Hard Days by Brantley Gilbert (country): https://youtu.be/5A3pPJuAH7s
- Fix You by Coldplay (pop/blues): https://youtu.be/aK3TROzVRiE
- Somewhere I Belong by Linkin Park (rock/rap): https://youtu.be/4ZI8AC4AR5A
- Lost by Maroon 5 (pop): https://youtu.be/U05fwua9-D4
- Lost Are Found by Hillsong Worship (Christian): https://youtu.be/ywdaLbIjGaQ
- It’s You I’ve Been Looking For by Lewis Brice (country): https://youtu.be/LS6UTbxAiS0
- Home by Gabrielle Aplin (pop): https://youtu.be/8mVbdjec0pA
- I Lost Myself by Munn (pop): https://youtu.be/QbNEIQvgIdg
- Goodbye by NF (pop): https://youtu.be/EDw_d2_HKcA
- Lost & Lonely by Aaron Lewis (country): https://youtu.be/t5THbA_MLLc
- Lost Without You by Nightcore (pop): https://youtu.be/JRVZVMsUROo
BLESSING — Jan Richardson
You hardly knew
how hungry you were
to be gathered in,
to receive the welcome
that invited you to enter
entirely…
Tentative steps
became settling in…
You began to breathe again…
You learned to sing.
But the deal with this blessing
is that it will not leave you alone,
will not let you linger…
this blessing
will ask you to leave,
not because it has tired of you
but because it desires for you
to become the sanctuary
that you have found…
I Want to Thank the Wind Blows — Alli Warren
Sound of the rain so I knowthere’s constraintsound of the trainso I know commercehas not come to a standstillnow they raise the barriernow they set it back in place What coats the bottomof the surface of the soundwhen the swifts come inwhen the clerks come homewho will bathe the childrenwho will bake the bread when the luff is tightwhen the mainsheetstarts the boat underway whatever you do don’tlet the tongue slipfrom its moorings what’s that song?love lift us up where we belong I ate the pilland the pill was real
I Belong Here — Ray Gonzalez
There is no act of forgiveness,only the redeeming light onthe shoulders dancing intall weeds, cigarettes goneand the girls slapping free. The tortilla cart burns againstthe wall because Jesus calledmy brother who was acquiredby whistling gangs of menunder the hanging arch. There can be no night withoutthe wind on shoulders exhaustedby games and messages my brotherlost between the darkness andthe bridge into Juarez, Mexico, where no crows caw becausethe buildings are torn andflashlights are narrow intheir beaming stumble,my thoughts the last oneson this side of the river, my sudden happiness hiddenin celestial light without beingappalled at what I see, my earsto the ground listening to weedsoverrun by boys who can’t spelland are waiting for me withoutknowing pilgrims are on the border. Whatever kills them spares methe journey to beg for purityamong unspoken Spanisheveryone fears in their greed.The group doesn’t know it iswhat the river stones teach,though I can’t speak of them because faith is prehistoric andmy brother is pursued by duststorms that erase his footprintsacross the back roads where heloses his language of need.
ON BEING LOST
Lost is a lovely place to find yourself. ― Michael Faudet
Maybe family were the people who came looking for you when you were lost. ― Vikki Wakefield
I’m not sure this is a world I belong in anymore. I’m not sure that I want to wake up. ― Gayle Forman
In this world, it is too common for people to search for someone to lose themselves in. But I am already lost. I will look for someone to find myself in. ― C. JoyBell C
If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong. ― Masaru Emoto
Some beautiful paths can’t be discovered without getting lost. ― Erol Ozan
Getting lost is just another way of saying ‘going exploring. ― Justina Chen Headley
I realise now that I wanted to disappear. To get so lost that nobody ever found me. To go so far away that I’d never be able to make my way home again. ― Jessica Warman
I Think it is lost…..but nothing is ever lost nor can be lost .
The body sluggish, aged, cold, the ember left from earlier fires
shall duly flame again. ― Walt Whitman
First I lost my heart. Then I lost my mind. ― Jennifer Salvato Doktorski
Slowly, with many lost days, I come back to life. ― Suzanne Collins
Sometimes I feel like I don’t belong anywhere, & it’s gonna take so long for me to get to somewhere, Sometimes I feel so heavy hearted, but I can’t explain cuz I’m so guarded. But that’s a lonely road to travel, and a heavy load to bear. And it’s a long, long way to heaven but I gotta get there
Can you send an angel
Can you send me an angel…to guide me?
― Alicia Keys
APPLY WITHIN — Suzy Kassem
You once told me
You wanted to find
Yourself in the world –
And I told you to
First apply within,
To discover the world
within you.
You once told me
You wanted to save
The world from all its wars –
And I told you to
First save yourself
From the world,
And all the wars
You put yourself
Through.
Advent Daily Devotional: WEEK of HOPE – DAY 4 -Wed, Dec 1
For surely I know the plans I have for you,
says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm,
to give you a future with hope. —Jeremiah 29:11
Where is the way to the dwelling of light? — Job 38:18-20
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This solo candle lifts its presence as a guide. It shines into the season of waiting and preparing. It becomes a companion.
In day-to-day living, we probably don’t focus on our need for hope. Rather, we seek or rely on hope in times when you struggle.
Another strategy for cultivating hope, especially when you are experiencing challenges, is to find at least one relationship that remains supportive. Just one.
At first, people often respond in overwhelming numbers with tangible gestures of kindness in the wake of trauma or loss. Over time, that network of sympathy and outreach slows down. Yet your human need to foster hope is often a long-term approach to whatever situation has troubled or transformed your life. If you have one or more vital connections that continue to be present throughout your journey, this is often enough to cultivate hope.
Perhaps, on the other hand, you are that significant relationship or form of support for another person. It’s imperative to honor self-care boundaries, so that you maintain your own equilibrium when offering compassion to someone else. Yet realize, even when you set limits, that by caring and showing up consistently for another person, you make a difference. You help foster resilience in another life, as well as your own.
Maybe, in this Advent season, you receive someone else’s light. Or perhaps you offer your own to another. One way or another, hope burns. — Rev Gail
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Hope can be a powerful force.
Maybe there’s no actual magic in it,
but when you know what you hope for most
and hold it like a light within you,
you can make things happen, almost like magic.
– Laini Taylor
Listen to the inner light; it will guide you.
Listen to the inner peace; it will feed you.
Listen to the inner love; it will transform you.
— Sri Chinmoy
Meditations on building houses (and lives) on sand vs stones: stumbling blocks, cornerstones, keystones, living stones
MATTHEW 7: 24-28 – Hearers and Doers – “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and acts on them will be like a wise man who built his house on rock. The rain fell, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on rock. And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not act on them will be like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell—and great was its fall!”
How … bring forth a garden on hard stone? Become earth, that you may grow flowers of many colors. For you have been heart-breaking rock. Once, for the sake of experiment, be earth! — Rumi
Poet to Bigot — Langston Hughes
I have done so little / For you,
And you have done so little / For me,
That we have good reason / Never to agree.
I, however, / Have such meagre / Power,
Clutching at a / Moment,
While you control / An hour.
But your hour is / A stone.
My moment is / A flower.
And they remembered that God was their rock, and the high God their redeemer. — Psalm 78:35
SONGS about Sand and Stones:
- My Feet Are on the Rock by I Am They (Christian country)
- Footprints in the Sand by Leona Lewis (Christian ballad)
- Heart of Stone featuring Natalie Paris from Six (musical)
- Wise Man Built His House Upon the Rock (Christian children’s song)
- Stone by Whiskey Myers (country-rock)
- Hearts of Stone by John Fogerty (country)
- Like a Rolling Stone by Bob Dylan (rock)
- Written in the Sand by Old Dominion (country)
- I’m Not Your Steppin’ Stone by The Monkees (rock)
- Every Grain of Sand by EmmyLou Harris (country)
- The Lord Is My Rock by Elevation Worship (Christian)
- Stone in Love by Journey (rock)
- Name in the Sand by Lil Skies (rock ballad – explicit language)
- I’ve Got Sand in my Shoes by The Drifters (rock)
- Turn to Stone by Electric Light Orchestra (rock)
- Circle in the Sand by Belinda Carlisle (pop)
- Pictures in the Sand by The Kinks (rock)
- Buleria by Camaron de la Isla (latin)
- Remember Walking in the Sand by The Beach Boys (rock)
- Remember Walking in the Sand by The Shangri-Las (rock)
- Blood from a Stone by Cinderella (rock)
- Castles in the Sand by Seals & Crofts (pop)
- Life Runs Out Like Sand by Bill Nelson (indie rock)
- Sand by The Shacks (pop)
- On the Dunes by Donald Fagen (rock)
- Stone Liberty by Diana Ross (rock)
- Sand by Thomas Rhett (country)
- Sea and Sand by The Who (rock)
To see a World in a Grain of Sand And a Heaven in a Wild Flower, Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand And Eternity in an hour. — William Blake
Very little grows on jagged rock. Be ground.
Be crumbled, so wildflowers will come up where you are.
― Rumi
The Stones – Wendell Berry
I owned a slope full of stones.
Like buried pianos they lay in the ground,
shards of old sea-ledges, stumbling blocks
where the earth caught and kept them
dark, an old music mute in them
that my head keeps now I have dug them out.
I broke them where they slugged in the dark
cells, and lifted them up in pieces.
As I piled them in the light
I began their music. I heard their old lime
rouse in breath of song that had not left me.
I gave pain and weariness to their bearing out.
What bond have I made with the earth,
having worn myself against it? It is a fatal singing
I have carried with me out of that day.
The stones have given me music
that figures for me their holes in the earth
and their long lying in them dark.
They have taught me the weariness that loves the ground,
and I must prepare a fitting silence.
Do Stones Feel? — Mary Oliver
Do stones feel? Do they love their life?
Or does their patience drown out everything else?
When I walk on the beach I gather a few
white ones, dark ones, the multiple colors.
Don’t worry, I say, I’ll bring you back, and I do.
Is the tree as it rises delighted with its many
branches, each one like a poem?
Are the clouds glad to unburden their bundles of rain?
Most of the world says no, no, it’s not possible.
I refuse to think to such a conclusion.
Too terrible it would be, to be wrong.
The Book of Camp Branch (excerpt) — Wendell Berry
How much delight I’ve known
in navigating down the flow
by stepping stones, by sounding
stones, by words that are
stepping and sounding stones.
Going down stone by stone,
the song of the water changes,
changing the way I walk
which changes my thought
as I go. Stone to stone
the stream flows. Stone to stone
the walker goes. The words
stand stone still until
the flow moves them, changing
the sound – a new word –
a new place to step or stand.
COMMENTARY on PARABLE of BUILDING a HOUSE on ROCK vs SAND
The picture is not of two men deliberately selecting foundations, but it contrasts one who carefully chooses and prepares his foundation with one who builds at hap-hazard. This is more strongly brought out by Luke (Luke 6:48): “Who digged and went deep, and laid a foundation upon the rock” … — Vincent’s Word Studies (full artilcle)
In the practical order, we find our Original Goodness, the image of God that we are, when we can discover and own the faith, hope, and love deeply planted within us:
- A trust in inner coherence itself. “It all means something!” (Faith)
- A trust that this coherence is positive and going somewhere good. (Hope)
- A trust that this coherence includes me and even defines me. (Love)
… Being created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26-27) gives everyone an equal and inherent dignity. However, in every age and culture, we have seen regressions toward racism, sexism, homophobia, militarism, ableism, and classism. This pattern tells me that unless we see dignity as being given universally, objectively, and from the beginning by God, we humans will constantly think it is up to us to decide… For the planet and for all living beings to move forward, we can rely on nothing less than an inherent original goodness and a universally shared dignity. Only then can we build, because the foundation is strong, and is itself good. Surely this is what Jesus meant when he told us to “dig and dig deep, and build your house on rock” (Luke 6:48). When we start with yes (or a positive vision), we are more likely to proceed with generosity and hope, and we have a much greater chance of ending with an even bigger yes, which we would call “resurrection.” — Fr Richard Rohr (full article)
… what Jesus himself taught and spent most of his time doing: healing people, doing acts of justice and inclusion, embodying compassionate and nonviolent ways of living… Jesus was teaching an alternative wisdom that shakes the social order instead of upholding the conventional wisdom that maintains it. Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount is not about preserving the status quo! It’s about living here on earth as if the Reign of God has already begun (see Luke 17:21). In this Reign, the Sermon tells us, the poor are blessed, the hungry are filled, the grieving are filled with joy, and enemies are loved. — Fr Richard Rohr (full article)
As in all hilly countries, the streams of Galilee rush down the torrent-beds during the winter and early spring, sweep all before them, overflow their banks, and leave beds of alluvial deposit on either side. When summer comes their waters fail (comp. Jeremiah 15:18; Job 6:15), and what had seemed a goodly river is then a tract covered with debris of stones and sand. A stranger coming to build might be attracted by the ready-prepared level surface of the sand. It would be easier to build there instead of working upon the hard and rugged rock. But the people of the land would know and mock the folly of such a builder, and he would pass (our Lord’s words may possibly refer to something that had actually occurred) into a by-word of reproach. On such a house the winter torrent had swept down in its fury, and the storms had raged, and then the fair fabric, on which time and money had been expended, had given way, and fallen into a heap of ruins. Interpreting the parable in the connection in which our Lord has placed it, it is clear that the house is the general fabric of an outwardly religious life. “The rock” can be nothing else than the firm foundation of repentance and obedience, the assent of the will and affections as well as of the lips. The “sand” answers to the shifting, uncertain feelings which are with some men (the “foolish” ones of the parable) the only ground on which they act—love of praise, respect for custom, and the like. The “wind,” the “rain,” the “floods” hardly admit, unless by an unreal minuteness, of individual interpretation, but represent collectively the violence of persecution, of suffering, of temptations from without, beneath which all but the life which rests on the true foundation necessarily gives way. Such is obviously the primary meaning of the parable here, but, like most other parables, it has other meanings, which, though secondary, are yet suggestive and instructive, and are not unsanctioned by the analogy of our Lord’s teaching. (1.) Already He had bestowed upon one of His disciples the name of Cephas, Peter, the Rock, and in so doing had at least indicated the type of character represented by the “rock” upon which the wise man built. When He afterwards said, “Upon this rock will I build my Church,” He was speaking in the character of a wise Master-builder who saw in fervent faith and unhesitating obedience the ground-work on which the Christian society, which He designated as His kingdom, was to rest. — Ellicott’s Commentary (full artilcle)
Palestine was to a considerable extent a land of hills and mountains. Like other countries of that description, it was subject to sudden and violent rains. The Jordan, the principal stream, was annually swollen to a great extent, and became rapid and furious in its course. The streams which ran among the hills, whose channels might have been dry during some months of the year, became suddenly swollen with the rain, and would pour down impetuously into the plains below. Everything in the way of these torrents would be swept off. Even houses, erected within the reach of these sudden inundations, and especially if founded on sand or on any unsolid basis, would not stand before them. The rising, bursting stream would shake it to its foundation; the rapid torrent would gradually wash away its base; it would totter and fall. Rocks in that country were common, and it was easy to secure for their houses a solid foundation. No comparison could, to a Jew, have been more striking. So tempests, and storms of affliction and persecution, beat around the soul. Suddenly, when we think we are in safety, the heavens may be overcast, the storm may lower, and calamity may beat upon us. In a moment, health, friends, comforts may be gone. How desirable, then, to be possessed of something that the tempest cannot reach! Such is an interest in Christ, reliance on his promises, confidence in his protection, and a hope of heaven through his blood. Earthly calamities do not reach these; and, possessed of religion, all the storms and tempests of life may beat harmlessly around us. — Matthew Henry’s commentary (full artilcle)
The teacher explained how each thing in the lesson had a much deeper meaning …— Gwen Schnell
- The house is much more than just a house! It is like our life and what we do with it.
- The storm-wind, rain, and floods are like troubles or problems that come into our lives, maybe like temptations.
- The strong rock is like Jesus. He helps us when we are having troubles, like the storm. Jesus helps stay strong and do the right thing and trust in Him.
- The soft sand is like worldly things. It’s whatever you may trust in INSTEAD of Jesus. It’s not strong or reliable. You will not find the help you need to be strong and do the right thing if you trust in anything or anyone but Jesus.
- The wise man was someone who listened to Jesus and obeyed Him, the foolish man was someone who did not.
LIVING STONES: Definition, Context, Commentary
The term living stones … is used as a metaphor to illustrate the secure and intimate relationship … with Jesus … — Gotquestions.org (full article)
The lively stone is us — all who belong to Jesus — and the Living Stone is Jesus. — Shari Abbott
Wherever, in any world, a soul, by free-willed obedience, catches the fire of God’s likeness, it is set into the growing walls, a living stone. — Phillips Brooks
As we come together, each of us a living stone, we are built into something greater through the power of Jesus Christ. We are special and important and Christ is alive in us and waiting for us to actually be a living stone. To take risks and live and breath everything through the power of Jesus Christ. — Ministry Matters (full article)
The “rock-stone” image imagery is common in Scripture. As Hillyer says, “There is, for example, the stumbling stone of Isaiah 8:14, the foundation stone of Isaiah 28:16, the parental rock of Isaiah 51:1f., the rejected but vindicated building stone of Psalm 118:22, the supernatural stone of Daniel 2:34 and the burdensome stone of Zechariah 12:3” (Norman Hillyer, “Rock-Stone Imagery in 1 Peter”, The Tyndale Bulletin, 22 [1971] 58). There is fair evidence that “Rock/Stone” was a messianic title among the Jews as well as among the Christians… — Edwin Blum
Four Stones — Mary Oliver
On the beach, at dawn:
Four small stones clearly
Hugging each other.
How many kinds of love
Might there be in the world,
And how many formations might they make
And who am I ever
To imagine I could know
Such a marvelous business?
When the sun broke
It poured willingly its light
Over the stones
That did not move, not at all,
Just as, to its always generous term,
It shed its light on me,
My own body that loves,
Equally, to hug another body.
SAND: Definition, Context, Commentary
… a loose granular material that results from the disintegration of rocks, consists of particles smaller than gravel but coarser than silt, and is used in mortar, glass, abrasives, and foundry molds. — Merriam-Webster definition
Sand is a granular material composed of finely divided rock and mineral particles. Sand has various compositions but is defined by its grain size. Sand grains are smaller than gravel and coarser than silt… Sand is a non-renewable resource over human timescales …— Wikipedia
We see God separating that which is holy apart, and setting it aside for himself in many places in Scripture. But conversely, the Hebrew word for sand, חול (chol), is the same as the word for “secular” or “ordinary” – that which is not set aside or holy… The dense dusty sand that hung over Israel was a good reminder of how sin and worldliness works:
- It clouds our vision and brings short-sightedness
- It chokes and suffocates life
- It makes it difficult to move up and out
— One for Israel (full article)
… sand and gravel resources are the second-largest resource extracted and traded by volume after water. — United Nations (full article)
CORNERSTONE: Definition, Context, Commentary
The cornerstone of something is the basic part of it on which its existence, success, or truth depends. — Collins Dictionary
In relation to architecture, a cornerstone is traditionally the first stone laid for a structure, with all other stones laid in reference. A cornerstone marks the geographical location by orienting a building in a specific direction. … Over the years, cornerstones have served a variety of purposes. As a means to preserve time, buildings have been marked with a numerical representation to remind people when the building was erected. This has given correlation to architecture and the design of the time. Additionally, cornerstones have become a strong symbol of a new era. They have indicated prosperity and opportunity—showing a sense of pride for what is possible at the time of construction. Cornerstones have also been turned into pieces of memorabilia, marking present buildings or denoting previously standing buildings. …
As the commemorative qualities of cornerstones have become recognized, the locations of craftsmanship have expanded to stones near or above the front door of a building. — New Studio Architecture (full article)
Since ancient times, builders have used cornerstones in their construction projects. A cornerstone was the principal stone, usually placed at the corner of an edifice, to guide the workers in their course. The cornerstone was usually one of the largest, the most solid, and the most carefully constructed of any in the edifice. The Bible describes Jesus as the cornerstone that His church would be built upon. He is foundational. Once the cornerstone was set, it became the basis for determining every measurement in the remaining construction; everything was aligned to it. As the cornerstone of the building of the church, Jesus is our standard of measure and alignment. — Gotquestions.org (full article)
A cornerstone (Greek: Άκρογωνιεîς, Latin: Primarii Lapidis) will sometimes be referred to as a “foundation-stone”, and is symbolic of Christ, whom the Apostle Paul referred to as the “head of the corner” and is the “Chief Cornerstone of the Church” (Ephesians 2:20) — Wikipedia
CAPSTONE or KEYSTONE: Definition, Context, Commentary
… it was the Roman civilization (1000 B.C.E. – 500 C.E.) that first began using a keystone (also called a capstone) in their arches. The keystone is the topmost stone in the arch. The one in the illustration on the right is exaggerated in size from what a normal keystone would be. The keystone helped to distribute the weight down the side supporting blocks (voussoir blocks) of the columns. With this design, the keystone is the “key” to supporting the arch, because if you remove the stone, the arch would collapse. — Ask a Biologist (full article)
Jesus is the keystone of creation; bringing order from non-order and providing a resolution for the problem of disorder introduced by sin. — RJS summarizing Jonathan Walton’s argument, Patheos.com (full article)
God next speaks of the “capstone” or “headstone.” Some people have assumed that this was a foundation stone, but it is not. God is speaking about finishing the temple, not starting it. This is not the cornerstone, which is installed in the foundation, but the finishing stone—the very last one set. It can also be called the gable stone or even the keystone that would finish an archway. It is a symbol of completion. In this case, it represents the Temple being sufficiently ready for God’s habitation. This ought to be clear. He is alluding to the preparation of the church for God’s Kingdom... their job of measuring the Temple, the altar, and the worshippers will be successful. They will be successful by”grace, grace”—double grace. Their work will be accomplished only by an extra measure of God’s grace.— Richard Ritenbaugh
Do not look only for the beautiful, water-polished stones that represent Christ’s abundant gifts and graces that He’s given you in the happy, simple, and easy times. Look also for the rough-edged rocks, and even the huge boulders, that represent Christ’s presence, provision, and protection in the most difficult, trying, and troubling times of life. — Shari Abbott
STUMBLING BLOCK: Definition, Context, Commentary
1 : an obstacle to progress 2 : an impediment to belief or understanding — Dictionary
During our step-work, every time we got to the fourth step—Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves—the women gave me a lot of pushback… They felt that … “what they’d done wrong” was the focus of many of their classes. It felt exhausting to them… It was not a punitive action… What if we can identify the thing that keeps us from enjoying life to its fullest? Can we look at this exercise as a diagnostic tool? … Mark Thibodeaux, SJ, writes, “If we take an honest look at the mistakes we’ve made, we’ll see that many of them were a reaction to an unnamed fear within us.” Twelve-steppers agree with that statement. We are told that our character defects (sin) are our instincts run amok… Once those fears have been identified, we have something on which to work. The goal of this work is reconnection…. — Jean Heaton, Noticing My Stumbling Blocks (full article)
Let us therefore no longer pass judgment on one another, but resolve instead never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of another… Let us then pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding. — Paul’s Letter to Romans