CHRISTMAS WEEKEND EVENTS
Fri, DEC 22
- 6:30pm • BLUE CHRISTMAS
Sun, DEC 24 – ADVENT 4: Love & CHRISTMAS EVE
- 9:15 • CHOIR PRACTICE
- 9:30/9:45am • PAGEANT PREP
- 10:30am • ADVENT 4 & PAGEANT SERVICE (In-person & Zoom)
- Harp music: Dominique Dodge
- Christmas pageant with carols
- Includes performance by Christmas Choir
- Guest: Santa Clause (arrives 11am)
- Zoom: Link and password required
- 11:30-Noon • SANTA PHOTOS (in-person) & HOSPITALITY
- 5pm • OUTDOOR WORSHIP (in-person)
- Guitar & Piano: Sharon Novak
- Scripture: Christmas Eve
- Message: Rev Gail Doktor
- Solo: Robert Carper
- Hot cocoa station: Sue Carrigan
- 9pm • CANDLELIGHT WORSHIP (in-person & livestreaming to jxncc.org
- Piano & Guitar: Sharon Novak
- Piano: Maisie Brown
- Scripture: Christmas Eve
- Special Music: Becca Gottlieb – solo
- Special Music: Gia Osborne
- Special Music: Sharon Novak
- Message: Rev Gail Doktor
Mon, DEC 25 – CHRISTMAS MORN
- 10:10am / 10:30am • PAJAMAS & BELLS (in-person & livestreaming to jxncc.org)
- 10:10am • Haydn Prelude by Sue Titus Reid
- 10:30am • Carols & story & prayer: 10:30am
- Carols on piano: Sue Titus Reid
- Story: Rev Gail Doktor
SUN, Dec 10 – Advent 2 (Peace)
SUN, Dec 10
- INTERFAITH SERVICE
8am • Old red library in Jackson / zoom- Join us for poetry, prayer, and conversation.
- Or join us over Zoom:
- Link and password required
- CHRISTMAS CHOIR PRACTICE
9:15am • JCC (in-person only)- Come to prepare two songs for the Advent and Christmas season
- SUNDAY WORSHIP with Advent 2: Peace
10:30am • Jackson Community Church (zoom also available)- Or join us over Zoom:
- Link and password required
- Music by Sharon Novak
- Reflection by Rev Gail Doktor
- Candle-lighting by Battenfelder family
- Or join us over Zoom:
- Community Event: Arts in Motion CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS
2pm • performance / 1:30 – 3:30pm festival events • Tin Mountain Conservation Center, Albany- Tickets: https://app.arts-people.com/index.php?ticketing=aim
- Join us for this joyous family festival at Tin Mountain Conservation Center in Conway, NH.
- With the purchase of a ticket to the 30-minute stage adaptation of this beloved TV classic, you can enjoy a staged holiday photo opportunity, a make-and-take holiday craft activity, write letters to Santa, listen to carolers, and purchase hot cocoa and snacks from the Kennett High School Key Club.
- With the donation of an unwrapped toy for someone in need, your name will be entered into a raffle for great holiday themed prizes
- Community Resource: JACKSON XC SKI TOURING
Open for skiing. More info: https://www.jacksonxc.org/trail-report/ - Community Event: CHRISTMAS CAROL
3:30pm • M&D Playhouse, North Conway- Directed by Siobhan Stevens
- Members of JCC’s community are performing in this production
- Additional performances:Thurs, Dec 14 @ 7:30pm, Fri, Dec 15 @ 7:30pm, Sat, Dec 16 @ 7:30pm, Sun, Dec 17 @ 3:30pm
- All Seats – $29
- Tickets: https://app.arts-people.com/index.php?show=145461
- Community Event: COLD RIVER RADIO SHOW CHRISTMAS!
6pm • Majestic Theater- Cassandre McKinley, Jon Butcher, Dan Blakeslee, Mark Mandeville & Raianne Richards, The DellaValla Trio, Pierce Sarty and Author David McPhail. Host Jonathan Sarty and His Fabulous Cold River Radio Band: David Mattacks on Drums (Jethro Tull, Fairport Convention), Todd Baker on Double Bass, and Joseph (Sonny) Barbato on Piano.
- Info and tickets: Cold River Radio Show for more information and to purchase in person and livestream tickets.
- This event is produced by Aspect Productions New England.
- Community Event: OPEN HOURS @ Jackson Historical Society
1-3pm • Jackson Historical SocietyAlso open by appointment.- More info: https://www.jacksonhistory.org/
- White Mountain Art Sale
- The Jackson Historical Society is holding its 21st annual White Mountain Art Sale. There are currently over 50 items from private collectors, primarily 19thcentury paintings. To see the online catalog, go to https://www.jacksonhistory.org/catalog.html. Items are available to purchase as they arrive, so check the catalog frequently to see new additions.
- The Society is open Saturdays and Sundays 1-3pm If you are interested in a painting, the Society can open by appointment. Contact info@jacksonhistory.org
- Community Event: MUSIC AROUND TOWN
- Shannon Door: Dan Parkhurst & Rafe • 6-9pm
- Red Parka: Mitch Alden • 5-8pm
My WORK is LOVING the WORLD — Mary Oliver
My work is loving the world.
Here the sunflowers, there the hummingbird –
equal seekers of sweetness. Here the quickening yeast; there the blue plums.
Here the clam deep in the speckled sand.
Are my boots old? Is my coat torn?
Am I no longer young and
still not half-perfect?
Let me keep my mind on what matters,
which is my work, which is mostly
standing still and learning to be astonished.
The phoebe, the delphinium.
The sheep in the pasture, and the pasture.
Which is mostly rejoicing,
since all ingredients are here,
Which is gratitude, to be given a mind
and a heart and these body-clothes,
a mouth with which to give shouts of joy
to the moth and the wren,
to the sleepy dug-up clam,
telling them all, over and over, how it is
that we live forever.
Not for victory,
but for the day’s work done
as well as I was able;
not for a seat upon the dais
but at the common table.
— Charles Reznikoff, excerpt from poem: Te Deum
SONGS about THANKS:
- Thank You by Kehlani (pop): https://youtu.be/xFNVazX97wo?si=Meb_pr8bna00pTOM
- Thank You by Sly & The Family Stone (rock): https://youtu.be/NOa5UOHdwnc
- Thankful by DJ Khaled ft Lil Wayne/Jeremih (gospel/pop/rap): https://youtu.be/IYVSEFMRR8Y?si=zp_4L3z6VjHBwaUX
- Gracias by Ozuna (latinx / pop): https://youtu.be/5K5R620Xq3k?si=IXAUsi444jV-A3qY
- Thank You by Keith Urban (country): https://youtu.be/nO0sQOwwydQ?si=mHEHotpjhTPcEaPO
- Thankfuyl by Cleine Dion (pop): https://youtu.be/snDcxiePeg4?si=myhuyZOGNmuu-meB
- Thank You for Being a Friend by Andrew Gold (pop): https://youtu.be/voNEgCKzves
- Gracias a la Vida by Violeta Parra (Chilean folk): https://youtu.be/w67-hlaUSIs?si=EdiOcnQbU-6r3b2J
- Gratitude by Earth, Wind & Fire (rock): https://youtu.be/9nKTWkiWMHE?si=2jdYba149GMudXRG
- Thank You Song by FKA Twigs (pop): https://youtu.be/hYBEeJzxS5Q?si=wJ5c1wPOnpREco_T
- In My Life by the Beatles (rock): https://youtu.be/YBcdt6DsLQA
- Give Thanks & Praises by Bob Marley (reggae): https://youtu.be/3TK34aQwC7Q
- Thank God I Found You by Mariah Carey (rock/pop): https://youtu.be/7KVxjQUCyn0
- Be Thankful by Natalie Cole (rock): https://youtu.be/6eLwhlxcJy8
- Kind and Generous by Natalie Merchant (pop): https://youtu.be/uAwyIad93-c
- Thank You by Dido (pop ballad): https://youtu.be/1TO48Cnl66w
- Grateful by Hezekiah Walker (Christian Gospel): https://youtu.be/yE0W-kQyz6A
- Thank God for You by Sawyer Brown (country/folk): https://youtu.be/nSDt_v2K_dY
- Thank You by Alanis Morissette (pop): https://youtu.be/OOgpT5rEKIU
- Thank You for Loving Me by Jon Bon Jovi (rock ballad): https://youtu.be/_9wKi1keg8g
INFO about THANKSGIVING
- FACTS & INFO from History.com: https://www.history.com/topics/thanksgiving/history-of-thanksgiving
BLESSINGS for the TABLE
FEASTING — John O’Donohue
As we begin this meal with grace,
Let us become aware of the memory
Carried inside the food before us:
The quiver of the seed
Awakening in the earth,
Unfolding in a trust of roots
And slender stems of growth,
On its voyage toward harvest,
The kiss of rain and surge of sun;
The innocence of animal soul
That never spoke a word,
Nourished by the earth
To become today our food;
The work of all the strangers
Whose hands prepared it,
The privilege of wealth and health
That enables us to feast and celebrate.
BLESSING the BREAD, the CUP — Jan Richardson
Let us bless the bread
that gives itself to us
with its terrible weight,
its infinite grace.
Let us bless the cup
poured out for us
with a love
that makes us anew.
Let us gather
around these gifts
simply given
and deeply blessed.
And then let us go
bearing the bread,
carrying the cup,
laying the table
within a hungering world.
No matter how you say it, grace can transform an ordinary meal into a celebration—of family, love, and gratitude. … So now someone at our holiday tables always ends up saying grace. I think we’re in it for the pause, the quiet thanks for love and for our blessings, before the shoveling begins. For a minute, our stations are tuned to a broader, richer radius. We’re acknowledging that this food didn’t just magically appear: Someone grew it, ground it, bought it, baked it; wow.
We say thank you for the miracle that we have stuck together all these years, in spite of it all; that we have each other’s backs, and hilarious companionship. We say thank you for the plentiful and outrageous food … We pray to be mindful of the needs of others. We savor these moments out of time, when we are conscious of love’s presence, of Someone’s great abiding generosity to our dear and motley family, these holy moments of gratitude. And that is grace. — Anne Lamott, Help, Thanks, Wow
WORDS & RESOURCES for WHEN WE FEAST
ALONE or IN SMALL NUMBERS: REMEMBERING
Video resource shared by a bereaved community member for people about getting through the holidays: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5GYnT8rr3VM
For the snow and bitter cold
For windows that rattle
And floorboards that creak
Ancient clocks that tick
Loudly in the silence
A cat curled against my side
A fire burning, candles lit
Lifting their smoke and fragrance
To God like prayers.
I’m thankful fo
r this moment
Alone and quiet, and that
Somehow there is beauty
Even in this loneliness.
The courage to be brave;
For this I am thankful.
THANKSGIVING for TWO — Marjorie Saiser
We must make our feast ourselves,
slice our half-ham, indulge, fill our plates,
potatoes and green beans
carried to our table near the window.
We are the feast, plenty of years,
arguments. I’m thinking the whole bundle of it
rolls out like a white tablecloth. We wanted
to be good company for one another.
Little did we know that first picnic
how this would go. Your hair was thick,
mine long and easy; we climbed a bluff
to look over a storybook plain. We chose
our spot as high as we could, to see
the river and the checkerboard fields.
What we didn’t see was this day, in
our pajamas if we want to,
wrinkled hands strong, wine
in juice glasses, toasting
whatever’s next,
the decades of side-by-side,
our great good luck.
Glad everyone is going home
Now I can sit and be really lazy
No one to drive me absolutely crazy
Eat pizza and drink some beer
Sit around in my lowest gear
Watch football on T.V.
Light a fire and put on a favorite CD
Dance and sing to my heart’s content
This time alone will be well spent
So if you get the chance to skip Thanksgiving,
Make it fun don’t have misgivings
Snow would be the easy
WORDS for FRIENDS & FAMILY that GATHER
CATALOG of UNABASHED GRATITUDE (excerpt) — Ross Gay
… and you, again you, for hanging tight, dear friend.
I know I can be long-winded sometimes.
I want so badly to rub the sponge of gratitude
over every last thing, including you, which, yes, awkward,…
… Goodbye, I mean to say.
And thank you. Every day.
The Day After
© Virginia Miranda
Published: February 2006
Keeping up our tradition
Work my bones for the occasion
No one to appreciate my special feast
The dinner table was empty
No one to sit
No one to thank God for blessings
No one to carry the sense of appreciation
Where did the tradition go?
Did it go with my mother’s Alzheimer disease?
Did it go to the vanity world of nonchalant?
The day after
Just another day of survival
Just another day for a cup of coffee
Just another day to reflect on the chaos of the days before
Thanksgiving, just another day
Thank you God for letting me cope
Just another day
Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/the-day-after
The Day After
© Virginia Miranda
Published: February 2006
Keeping up our tradition
Work my bones for the occasion
No one to appreciate my special feast
The dinner table was empty
No one to sit
No one to thank God for blessings
No one to carry the sense of appreciation
Where did the tradition go?
Did it go with my mother’s Alzheimer disease?
Did it go to the vanity world of nonchalant?
The day after
Just another day of survival
Just another day for a cup of coffee
Just another day to reflect on the chaos of the days before
Thanksgiving, just another day
Thank you God for letting me cope
Just another day
Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/the-day-afte
PIE with SPIRITS — Mary Wellemeyer
This is the very pumpkin pie
my grandmother made—almost.
She was a modern woman
who knew how to follow recipes.
Receipts, she called them,
because they had been received.
She had a rule
for pie crust that was constant
until, from time to time, it changed.
I have that rule, in turn,
and it has moved on,
just a bit, from where she left it.
This is my special shared moment
with her, departed a quarter century.
As I work, I am all ages of myself,
and the thought of my tall son
comes to join us,
though he hardly knew her.
He makes pies with wild abandon,
sculpting them from material and artistry.
He has received pie somehow
at the level of soul.
The three of us make pie together,
preheating the oven,
cutting butter into flour,
adding water,
flouring a board,
rolling the crust.
To honor her, I follow the recipe.
To honor him, I change just one thing.
To honor myself, I take my time and smile.
PERHAPS the WORLD ENDS HERE — Joy Harjo
The world begins at a kitchen table. No matter what, we must eat to live.
The gifts of earth are brought and prepared, set on the table. So it has been since creation, and it will go on.
We chase chickens or dogs away from it. Babies teethe at the corners. They scrape their knees under it.
It is here that children are given instructions on what it means to be human. We make men at it, we make women.
At this table we gossip, recall enemies and the ghosts of lovers.
Our dreams drink coffee with us as they put their arms around our children. They laugh with us at our poor falling-down selves and as we put ourselves back together once again at the table.
This table has been a house in the rain, an umbrella in the sun.
Wars have begun and ended at this table. It is a place to hide in the shadow of terror. A place to celebrate the terrible victory.
We have given birth on this table, and have prepared our parents for burial here.
At this table we sing with joy, with sorrow. We pray of suffering and remorse. We give thanks.
Perhaps the world will end at the kitchen table, while we are laughing and crying, eating of the last sweet bite.
FAMILY REUNION — Maxine Kumin
The week in August you come home,
adult, professional, aloof,
we roast and carve the fatted calf
—in our case home-grown pig, the chine
garlicked and crisped, the applesauce
hand-pressed. Hand-pressed the greengage wine.
Nothing is cost-effective here.
The peas, the beets, the lettuces
hand sown, are raised to stand apart.
The electric fence ticks like the slow heart
of something we fed and bedded for a year,
then killed with kindness’s one bullet
and paid Jake Mott to do the butchering.
In winter we lure the birds with suet,
thaw lungs and kidneys for the cat.
Darlings, it’s all a circle from the ring
of wire that keeps the raccoons from the corn
to the gouged pine table that we lounge around,
distressed before any of you was born.
Benign and dozy from our gluttonies,
the candles down to stubs, defenses down,
love leaking out unguarded the way
juice dribbles from the fence when grounded
by grass stalks or a forgotten hoe,
how eloquent, how beautiful you seem!
Wearing our gestures, how wise you grow,
ballooning to overfill our space,
the almost-parents of your parents now.
So briefly having you back to measure us
is harder than having let you go.
FIRST THANKSGIVING — Sharon Olds
When she comes back, from college, I will see
the skin of her upper arms, cool,
matte, glossy. She will hug me, my old
soupy chest against her breasts,
I will smell her hair! She will sleep in this apartment,
her sleep like an untamed, good object,
like a soul in a body. She came into my life the
second great arrival, after him, fresh
from the other world—which lay, from within him,
within me. Those nights, I fed her to sleep,
week after week, the moon rising,
and setting, and waxing—whirling, over the months,
in a slow blur, around our planet.
Now she doesn’t need love like that, she has
had it. She will walk in glowing, we will talk,
and then, when she’s fast asleep, I’ll exult
to have her in that room again,
behind that door! As a child, I caught
bees, by the wings, and held them, some seconds,
looked into their wild faces,
listened to them sing, then tossed them back
into the air—I remember the moment the
arc of my toss swerved, and they entered
the corrected curve of their departure.
THANKSGIVING POEM — Rumi
Thanksgiving is sweeter than bounty itself.
One who cherishes gratitude
does not cling to the gift!
Thanksgiving is the true meat of God’s bounty; the bounty is its shell,
For thanksgiving carries you
to the hearth of the Beloved.
Abundance alone brings heedlessness, thanksgiving gives birth to alertness.
The bounty of thanksgiving
will satisfy and elevate you,
and you will bestow
a hundred bounties in return.
Eat your fill of God’s delicacies,
and you will be freed
from hunger and begging.
men and women, and ordered
COMMENTARIES on THANKSGIVING
TO GIVE THANKS
Eating with the fullest pleasure – pleasure, that is, that does not depend on ignorance – is perhaps the profoundest enactment of our connection with the world. In this pleasure we experience our dependence and our gratitude, for we are living in a mystery, from creatures we did not make and powers we cannot comprehend. ― Wendell Berry
No longer forward nor behind
I look in hope or fear;
But, grateful, take the good I find,
The best of now and here.
— John Greenleaf Whittier
For me, every hour is grace. And I feel gratitude in my heart each time I can meet someone and look at his or her smile. — Elie Wiesel
Let gratitude be the pillow upon which you kneel to say your nightly prayer. — Maya Angelou
“Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks.” I am not all the way capable of so much, but those are the right instructions. ― Wendell Berry
Thanksgiving was never meant to be shut up in a single day. — Robert Caspar Lintner
If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough. — Meister Eckhart
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite days of the year because it reminds us to give thanks and to count our blessings. Suddenly, so many things become so little when we realize how blessed and lucky we are. — Joyce Giraud
I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new. — Ralph Waldo Emerson
At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us. — Albert Schweitzer
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. —Melody Beattie
I don’t need a holiday or a feast to feel grateful for my children, the sun, the moon, the roof over my head, music, and laughter, but I like to take this time to take the path of thanks less traveled. — Paula Poundstone
I am grateful for what I am and have. My thanksgiving is perpetual. — Henry David Thoreau
The emperor Caesar — the head of the Roman empire — was believed to be “lord and savior.” He owned everything, the benefactor who distributed his gifts and favors (“gratia” in Latin) at will… Caesar’s gifts, however, were not free. They were transactional. When you received from Caesar, you were expected to return gratitude, your “gratia,” through tributes, tithes, taxes, loyalty and military service. Until you returned appropriate thanks, you were in Caesar’s debt…
There is, however, an alternative to the pyramid of gratitude: a table. One of the enduring images of American self-understanding is that of a Thanksgiving table, where people celebrate abundance, serve one another and make sure all are fed. People give with no expectation of return, and joy replaces obligation. This vision of gratitude is truly virtuous, sustains the common good, ensures a circle of equality, and strengthens community. — Diana Butler Bass, New York Times
…an intelligently planned feast is like a summing up of the whole world, where each part is represented by its envoys. — Jean-Antheleme Brillat-Savarin
When we develop a right attitude of compassion and gratitude, we take a giant step towards solving our personal and international problems. — Dalai Lama
When you allow your heart to open to the universe’s flow of love, gratitude comes with that flow. Gratitude for the people that you love, and for those who share your life. Gratitude for the Creation of the beautiful Earth as our home in this great cosmos. Gratitude for the Sun that gives us life. Gratitude for being alive, for just existing, for being in the flow of the wonder of life. — Owen Waters
O Lord, who lends me life, lend me a heart replete with thankfulness. — William Shakespeare
Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn’t die; so, let us all be thankful.” — Buddha
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. — Albert Einstein
Thankfulness is measured by the number of words. Gratitude is measured by the nature of our actions. — David McKay
We should certainly count our blessings, but we should also make our blessings count. — Neal Maxwell
NATIONAL HOLIDAY PROCLAMATION
Below is the proclamation which set the precedent for America’s national day of Thanksgiving. …
Sarah Josepha Hale, a 74-year-old magazine editor, wrote a letter to Lincoln on September 28, 1863, urging him to have the “day of our annual Thanksgiving made a National and fixed Union Festival.” … The document below sets apart the last Thursday of November “as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise.” According to an April 1, 1864, letter from John Nicolay, one of President Lincoln’s secretaries, this document was written by Secretary of State William Seward, and the original was in his handwriting. On October 3, 1863, fellow Cabinet member Gideon Welles recorded in his diary how he complimented Seward on his work. A year later the manuscript was sold to benefit Union troops.
By the President of the United States of America. A Proclamation.
The year that is drawing towards its close, has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added, which are of so extraordinary a nature, that they cannot fail to penetrate and soften even the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever watchful providence of Almighty God. In the midst of a civil war of unequaled magnitude and severity, which has sometimes seemed to foreign States to invite and to provoke their aggression, peace has been preserved with all nations, order has been maintained, the laws have been respected and obeyed, and harmony has prevailed everywhere except in the theatre of military conflict; while that theatre has been greatly contracted by the advancing armies and navies of the Union. Needful diversions of wealth and of strength from the fields of peaceful industry to the national defence, have not arrested the plough, the shuttle or the ship; the axe has enlarged the borders of our settlements, and the mines, as well of iron and coal as of the precious metals, have yielded even more abundantly than heretofore. Population has steadily increased, notwithstanding the waste that has been made in the camp, the siege and the battle-field; and the country, rejoicing in the consiousness of augmented strength and vigor, is permitted to expect continuance of years with large increase of freedom. No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy. It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and one voice by the whole American People. I do therefore invite my fellow citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens. And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to His tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquillity and Union.
In testimony whereof, I have hereunto set my hand and caused the Seal of the United States to be affixed.
Done at the City of Washington, this Third day of October, in the year of our Lord one thousand eight hundred and sixty-three, and of the Independence of the Unites States the Eighty-eighth.
By the President: Abraham Lincoln
William H. Seward,
Secretary of State
COMMENTARIES FROM FIRST PEOPLES’ PERSPECTIVES
The United American Indians of New England meet each year at Plymouth Rock on Cole’s Hill for a Day of Mourning. They gather at the feet of a statue of Grand Sachem Massasoit of the Wampanoag to remember and reflect in the hope that America will never forget. — Dennis Zotigh
…. we can’t keep perpetuating the old myths. Let’s instead honor the truth, reclaim it and transform it with the light of our understanding. As we celebrate Thanksgiving in the US we are reminded like Terra Trevor said on the Huffington Post: “the ‘Thanksgiving’ holiday was coined and continues to be celebrated based on a story that does not include factual Native American history.. It serves as a period of remembering how a gift of generosity was rewarded by theft of land and seed corn, extermination of many Native people from disease, and near total elimination of many more from forced assimilation. As celebrated in America ‘Thanksgiving’ is a reminder of 500 years of betrayal.” She continues: “I’m within the assemblage of American Indians whose family and Native friends celebrates Thanksgiving. But our focus is not on pilgrims. …. “Our celebration is deep-rooted in the simple tradition of honoring, remembering our ancestors, our history, with a focus on celebrating the harvest. We feast and pray for the healing to begin…” … Wes Annac [said] … “We wish to talk to you about the holiday that many know as Thanksgiving. This is a holiday that is being celebrated in the United States, and we wish you to know that yes, it does have a very dark history. … “So as you go about your celebrations, we ask you to honor the spirits of those who had their lands forcefully taken away from them, and at the same time dear souls we ask you to honor, we ask you to appreciate the bounty that you are being blessed with on these holidays. … I am grateful to all of you for opening you hearts, for your sisterhood and brotherhood. Our circle of connection is palpable and we are building bridges of light as we join hearts across space and time…. — Mijanou Montealegre (excerpt of post)
I celebrate the holiday of Thanksgiving.This may surprise those people who wonder what Native Americans think of this official U.S. celebration of the survival of early arrivals in a European invasion that culminated in the death of 10 to 30 million native people. Thanksgiving to me has never been about Pilgrims…. As a child of a Native American family, you are part of a very select group of survivors, and I learned that my family possessed some “inside” knowledge of what really happened when those poor, tired masses came to our homes.
When the Pilgrims came to Plymouth Rock, they were poor and hungry — half of them died within a few months from disease and hunger. When Squanto, a Wampanoag man, found them, they were in a pitiful state. He spoke English, having traveled to Europe, and took pity on them. Their English crops had failed. The native people fed them through the winter and taught them how to grow their food.These were not merely “friendly Indians.” They had already experienced European slave traders raiding their villages for a hundred years or so, and they were wary — but it was their way to give freely to those who had nothing.
Among many of our peoples, showing that you can give without holding back is the way to earn respect. …. It was believed that by giving there would be enough for all …
To the Pilgrims, and most English and European peoples, the Wampanoags were heathens, and of the Devil. They saw Squanto not as an equal but as an instrument of their God to help his chosen people, themselves.
Since that initial sharing, Native American food has spread around the world. Nearly 70 percent of all crops grown today were originally cultivated by Native American peoples. I sometimes wonder what they ate in Europe before they met us. Spaghetti without tomatoes? Meat and potatoes without potatoes?
And at the “first Thanksgiving” the Wampanoags provided most of the food — and signed a treaty granting Pilgrims the right to the land at Plymouth, the real reason for the first Thanksgiving. What did the Europeans give in return? Within 20 years European disease and treachery had decimated the Wampanoags. Most diseases then came from animals that Europeans had domesticated. Cowpox from cows led to smallpox, one of the great killers of our people, spread through gifts of blankets used by infected Europeans. Some estimate that diseases accounted for a death toll reaching 90 percent in some Native American communities.
By 1623, Mather the elder, a Pilgrim leader, was giving thanks to his God for destroying the heathen savages to make way “for a better growth,” meaning his people.In stories told by the Dakota people, an evil person always keeps his or her heart in a secret place separate from the body. The hero must find that secret place and destroy the heart in order to stop the evil.I see, in the “First Thanksgiving” story, a hidden Pilgrim heart.
The story of that heart is the real tale than needs to be told. What did it hold? Bigotry, hatred, greed, self-righteousness? We have seen the evil that it caused in the 350 years since. Genocide, environmental devastation, poverty, world wars, racism.
Where is the hero who will destroy that heart of evil? I believe it must be each of us. Indeed, when I give thanks this Thursday and I cook my native food, I will be thinking of this hidden heart and how my ancestors survived the evil it caused.
Because if we can survive, with our ability to share and to give intact, then the evil and the good will that met that Thanksgiving day in the land of the Wampanoag will have come full circle. And the healing can begin.— Jacqueline Keeler, member of the Dineh Nation and the Yankton Dakota Sioux.
Each November in America we celebrate the harvest festival of Thanksgiving. Over the years, much lore has evolved surrounding early Thanksgivings and feelings of brotherhood and good will between pilgrim settlers and the Native inhabitants of North America. Sadly, most of these stories are inaccurate at best, and serve to ignore or gloss over a broad history of atrocities. In our hearts, we cannot celebrate Thanksgiving Day in the way revisionist history teaches our school children. We still feel the pain and suffering of our ancestors as the Pilgrims celebrated their thanksgivings by theft of our lands and the genocide of our peoples.
Still, Native Americans are grateful for all that nature provides, and many of us celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday in our own ways. Moreover, we give thanks every day as we greet the morning star in the eastern sky giving thanks to the Creator, our families, our ancestors and our survival.
We wish you and your families a happy holiday, and hope you are able to set images of pilgrims aside and join in gratitude for the bounty the living earth provides us. In that spirit, let us share with you the words of “Thankgiving” from our Mohawk relatives in belief that one day there will truly be a Thanksgiving for all. — ohnwentsya, Spirit in Action blog journal
Haudenosaunee “Thanksgiving” Prayer
The People
Today we have gathered and we see that the cycles of life continue. We have been given the duty to live in balance and harmony with each other and all living things. So now, we bring our minds together as one as we give greetings and thanks to each other as people.
Now our minds are one.
The Earth Mother
We are all thankful to our Mother, the Earth, for she gives us all that we need for life. She supports our feet as we walk about upon her. It gives us joy that she continues to care for us as she has from the beginning of time. To our mother, we send greetings and thanks.
Now our minds are one.
The Waters
We give thanks to all the waters of the world for quenching our thirst and providing us with strength. Water is life. We know its power in many forms-waterfalls and rain, mists and streams, rivers and oceans. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to the spirit of Water.
Now our minds are one.
The Fish
We turn our minds to the all the Fish life in the water. They were instructed to cleanse and purify the water. They also give themselves to us as food. We are grateful that we can still find pure water. So, we turn now to the Fish and send our greetings and thanks.
Now our minds are one.
The Plants
Now we turn toward the vast fields of Plant life. As far as the eye can see, the Plants grow, working many wonders. They sustain many life forms. With our minds gathered together, we give thanks and look forward to seeing Plant life for many generations to come.
Now our minds are one.
The Food Plants
With one mind, we turn to honor and thank all the Food Plants we harvest from the garden. Since the beginning of time, the grains, vegetables, beans and berries have helped the people survive. Many other living things draw strength from them too. We gather all the Plant Foods together as one and send them a greeting of thanks.
Now our minds are one.
The Medicine Herbs
Now we turn to all the Medicine herbs of the world. From the beginning they were instructed to take away sickness. They are always waiting and ready to heal us. We are happy there are still among us those special few who remember how to use these plants for healing. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to the Medicines and to the keepers of the Medicines.
Now our minds are one.
The Animals
We gather our minds together to send greetings and thanks to all the Animal life in the world. They have many things to teach us as people. We are honored by them when they give up their lives so we may use their bodies as food for our people. We see them near our homes and in the deep forests. We are glad they are still here and we hope that it will always be so.
Now our minds are one.
The Trees
We now turn our thoughts to the Trees. The Earth has many families of Trees who have their own instructions and uses. Some provide us with shelter and shade, others with fruit, beauty and other useful things. Many people of the world use a Tree as a symbol of peace and strength. With one mind, we greet and thank the Tree life.
Now our minds are one.
The Birds
We put our minds together as one and thank all the Birds who move and fly about over our heads. The Creator gave them beautiful songs. Each day they remind us to enjoy and appreciate life. The Eagle was chosen to be their leader. To all the Birds-from the smallest to the largest-we send our joyful greetings and thanks.
Now our minds are one.
The Four Winds
We are all thankful to the powers we know as the Four Winds. We hear their voices in the moving air as they refresh us and purify the air we breathe. They help us to bring the change of seasons. From the four directions they come, bringing us messages and giving us strength. With one mind, we send our greetings and thanks to the Four Winds.
Now our minds are one.
The Thunderers
Now we turn to the west where our grandfathers, the Thunder Beings, live. With lightning and thundering voices, they bring with them the water that renews life. We are thankful that they keep those evil things made by Okwiseres underground. We bring our minds together as one to send greetings and thanks to our Grandfathers, the Thunderers.
Now our minds are one.
The Sun
We now send greetings and thanks to our eldest Brother, the Sun. Each day without fail he travels the sky from east to west, bringing the light of a new day. He is the source of all the fires of life. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to our Brother, the Sun.
Now our minds are one.
Grandmother Moon
We put our minds together to give thanks to our oldest Grandmother, the Moon, who lights the night-time sky. She is the leader of woman all over the world, and she governs the movement of the ocean tides. By her changing face we measure time, and it is the Moon who watches over the arrival of children here on Earth. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to our Grandmother, the Moon.
Now our minds are one.
The Stars
We give thanks to the Stars who are spread across the sky like jewelry. We see them in the night, helping the Moon to light the darkness and bringing dew to the gardens and growing things. When we travel at night, they guide us home. With our minds gathered together as one, we send greetings and thanks to the Stars.
Now our minds are one.
The Enlightened Teachers
We gather our minds to greet and thank the enlightened Teachers who have come to help throughout the ages. When we forget how to live in harmony, they remind us of the way we were instructed to live as people. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to these caring teachers.
Now our minds are one.
The Creator
Now we turn our thoughts to the creator, or Great Spirit, and send greetings and thanks for all the gifts of Creation. Everything we need to live a good life is here on this Mother Earth. For all the love that is still around us, we gather our minds together as one and send our choicest words of greetings and thanks to the Creator.
Now our minds are one.
Closing Words
We have now arrived at the place where we end our words. Of all the things we have named, it was not our intention to leave anything out. If something was forgotten, we leave it to each individual to send such greetings and thanks in their own way.
Now our minds are one
November INSIDE OUT Newsletter
Happy Fall – Members and Friends of the Jackson Community Church.
Please see the attached Inside-Out newsletter that tells about all the great things happening at the Jackson Community Church this month.
Joanne Turner, Administrative Assistant
Jackson Community Church
TUE, Nov 7 – SUN, Nov 12 (Veterans Day Weekend)
TUE, Nov 7
- Community Event: NORDIC WALKING – INTERVALS with POLES – with Ellen Chandler
8am • Valley Cross Road Parking Lot, Jackson - FITNESS CLASS with Laurie McAleer
9:30am • Jackson Community Church- Free to all participants.
- Gentle, chair-based stretch and fitness for all levels of ability
- CLERGY LUNCH
12:30pm • Zoom- Local clergy convene for conversations, ecumenical event-planning, and peer support. Rev Gail attends.
- Community Resource: LIBRARIES
- 10am-7pm • Jackson Library
Contact the library for additional help: 603.383.9731 or by email: staff@jacksonlibrary.org. For more info: http://jacksonlibrary.org/- 11am• STORYTIME
- 2pm-5pm • Bartlett Library
More info: https://www.bartlettpubliclibrary.org/
- 10am-7pm • Jackson Library
- Community Event: MUSIC AROUND TOWN
- Wildcat Tavern: Hoot Night with Jonathan Sarty • 6-8:30pm
WED, Nov 8
- Community Event: YOGA with Anjali Rose
9am • Old Red Library- The class is $10/week. Please bring the right change if possible or a check made payable to Anjali Rose.
- Julie at the Town office asked if people would be kind enough to donate a $1/week for the envelope in the library to cover expenses.
- Contact: Anjali Rose, MEd. 500 RYT, RMT: (603)370-8386, email anjali-rose.com
- Community Resource: LIBRARIES
- 2-5pm • Jackson Library
Contact the library for additional help: 603.383.9731 or by email: staff@jacksonlibrary.org. For more info: http://jacksonlibrary.org/ - 12pm-6pm • Bartlett Library
More info: https://www.bartlettpubliclibrary.org/
- 2-5pm • Jackson Library
- GRIEF GROUP for Child Loss
1pm • Old Red Librsry- Rev Gail facilitates this group to support bereaved community members. All welcome; free. This session focuses specifically on child loss.
- Separately, a different group meets once a month fo support those struggling with partner/spousal loss (as well as other adult relationships such as parents/siblings). Next meeting: Wed, Nov 29 @ 1pm.
- At this point, new participants are welcome through word-of-mouth or referrals. We’ll meet as consistently as possible. You don’t have to attend every session.
- On the other hand, knowing that folks will gather helps make sure the group can be present to support each other. If you cannot make an upcoming gathering, please send email or text to let the group know: gaildoktor@mac.com, cell: 978.273.0308.
- We will offer each group as long as the community need continues.
- Community Event: FRENCH CONVERSATION GROUP
4pm • Jackson Public Library- Come and converse in French with others at JPL!
- This group is facilitated by Erica Corbett Klein.
- Intermediate level and above welcome. Venez nombreux!
- MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT AROUND TOWN
- Wildcat Tavern: Live Trivia • 7:306-9pm
- Community Event: RESCHEDULED KILHAM BEAR CENTER
7pm ° Bartlett Elementary, Bartlett
We are very excited to be hosting Ben Kilham of the Kilham Bear Center located in Lyme. The Kilham Bear Center has been rehabilitating and releasing injured, orphaned and abandoned black bear cubs since 1993. For more information follow this link https://kilhambearcenter.org/. This event may take place in the Josiah Bartlett Elementary School cafeteria to take advantage of the additional space.
THURS, Nov 9
- Community Resource: LIBRARIES
- 10am-7pm • Jackson Library
Contact the library for additional help: 603.383.9731 or by email: staff@jacksonlibrary.or - 2-5pm • Bartlett Library
More info: https://www.bartlettpubliclibrary.org/
- 10am-7pm • Jackson Library
- Community Event: VETERANS DAY OBSERVANCE with Jackson Grammar School
8:45am • Jackson Grammar School- Veterans are invited
- Light refreshments will be served
- Community Service: WAY STATION SHIFT
All Day • Way Station, 15 Grove St, No Conway- Volunteers open day resource center for showers, mail pickup, grocery distribution, more.
- Community Evebnt: KNITTING in KNOTS
5:30pm • Jackson Public Library- Knitting is back @ JPL!
- Join our knitting group, Knitting in Knots? Knitters will meet the 2nd & 4th Thursdays of the month at 5:30 p.m.
- This group is for adult knitters. Whether you are a beginner, expert, or somewhere in between bring your project(s) with you for knitting and conversation.
- Community Event: MAJESTIC CAFE THURSDAY: Jon Deveneau & Simon Crawford
5:30pm Doors Open / 6 pm to 8:30 pm Performance • Majestic Theater Cafe, Conway- More info and tickets: https://www.conwaymajestic.com/
- MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT AROUND TOWN
- Shannon Door: Jeremy Deao • 6-9pm
- Red Parka: Bingo for Habitat for Humanity • 5:30-7pm
FRI, Nov 10 (Veterans Day Observed)
- Community Event: ZUMBA with Dottie
8:15am • Whitney Community Center, Jackson- $5/pp
- Community Event: NORDIC WALKING with Ellen Chandler8am • Valley Cross Road Parking Lot, Jackson
- Fridays – Intervals with poles (more like hill bounding)
- Here is a video link (sorry for the various ads) that explains Nordic Walking and “Moosehoofing”.
- This is a “meet up” type of activity, no charge.
- Needed equipment: ski poles are better than trekking poles, but don’t let pole-specificity get in the way of joining. I wear my “second best running shoes,” not the best because it can be wet and muddy; but light hikers work, too. Plus the usual sun and tick repellents.
- Ellen Chandler, Executive Director, JacksonXC, 603-383-9355, 603-867-8707 voice/text
- FITNESS CLASS with Laurie McAleer
9:30am • Jackson Community Church- Free to all participants.
- Gentle, chair-based stretch and fitness for all levels of ability
- Community Event: LINE DANCING with Dottie
9:15ma • Whitney Cmmunity Center, Jackson- $5/pp
- Community Resource: LIBRARIES
2pm-5pm • Jackson Library- Contact the library for additional help: 603.383.9731 or by email: staff@jacksonlibrary.org
- C3: COCKTAILS & CHRISTIAN CONVERSATION
5pm • Zoom- Zoom link and password required.
- Bring your preferred beverage to the conversation about scripture and artwork inspired by the scripture.
- Community Events: MUSIC AROUND TOWN
- Wildcat Tavern: Al Shafner’s Jackrabbit Twist Competition r • 7-9pm • $5 cover
- Shannon Door: Mitch Alden • 6-9pm
- Red Parka: Generations • 8-11pm
- Ledge Brewing (Intervale): Food for Bears • 6-8pm
- Shovel Handle Pub: Randy Messineo • 5:30-8:30pm
- Community Event: BLUEGRASS CONCERT at NATIVITY LUTHERAN
7pm • Nativity Lutheran Church, North Conway- Join us for a lively evening concert featuring the music of Joe K. Walsh, Ella Jordan, & Jed Wilson.
- The proceeds will help Nativity Lutheran pay for the new-to-us piano he will be playing.
- Tickets: $25:
- Purchase tix thru Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/concert-with-joe-k-walsh-ella-jordan-jed-wilson-tickets-726857439167?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl&fbclid=IwAR2LdI7OP3_BqR01hMhtfqfpMKsIL1taaPTZ07cbbTrVslyIDEAkhnTYdN4
- Community Event: FRIDAY NIGHT JAZZ: John Hunter & Paul Heckel
- Walk-ins are always welcome, but space is limited; reservations are available to guarantee your seat and to indicate a seating choice.
- The Friday Night jazz series has a $10 per person cover charge.
- Doors at 6 pm; music at 7pm.
- Come in early and grab a panini before the music starts
- 7pm • Majestic Cafe, Conway
SAT, Nov 11
- Community Event:SKETCHING from SPECIMENS: Nature Drawing Class
9-11am Tin Mountain Nature Learning Center- Let’s explore what’s in the drawers! Turtle shells, skulls, insects, and more. Even mounted specimens can be accessed in this class. Drawing what we see in nature is one of the best ways to connect with nature. But what’s it like to see and feel an animal’s skull up close? Or a bird’s toes? This workshop, led by artist Sandy McDermott, is an opportunity to touch, feel, and hold some natural artifacts that we wouldn’t be able to handle, or shouldn’t, in an outdoor, live setting. This workshop is open to anyone with an interest in drawing and nature, no experience required.
- Program fee: $10/member and $20/non-member.
- Space is limited and registration is required. Call 447-6991 or click here to register onlin
- Community Event: OPEN HOURS @ Jackson Historical Society
1-3pm • Jackson Historical Society- Also open by appointment.
- More info: https://www.jacksonhistory.org/
- White Mountain Art Sale
- The Jackson Historical Society is holding its 21st annual White Mountain Art Sale. There are currently over 50 items from private collectors, primarily 19thcentury paintings. To see the online catalog, go to https://www.jacksonhistory.org/catalog.html. Items are available to purchase as they arrive, so check the catalog frequently to see new additions.
- The Society is open Saturdays and Sundays 1-3pm. If you are interested in a painting, the Society can open by appointment. Contact info@jacksonhistory.org.
- Community Event: MAJESTIC CAFE Saturday
7pm • Majestice Cafe- Info: https://www.conwaymajestic.com/cafe/
- An intimate 50-seat venue in the storefront next to the Majestic Theatre, the Majestic Cafe serves wine, beer, craft cocktails, non-alcoholic drinks and a small food menu with a close-up view on music from the region’s most creative performers.
- Walk-ins are always welcome, but space is limited
- Reservations are available to guarantee your seat and to indicate a seating choice.
- Doors at 6 pm; music at 7pm.
- Come in early and grab a panini before the music starts.
- Community Resource: LIBRARIES
- 10am-2pm • Jackson Library
Contact the library for additional help: 603.383.9731 or by email: staff@jacksonlibrary.org - 11am-3pm • Bartlett Library
More info: https://www.bartlettpubliclibrary.org/
- 10am-2pm • Jackson Library
- Community Events: MUSIC AROUND TOWN
- Wildcat Tavern: Jonathan Sarty • 7-9pm •
- Shannon Door: Mike & Becca • 6-9pm
- Red Parka: Pub Party • 8-11pm
SUN, Nov 12
- INTERFAITH SERVICE
8am • Old red library in Jackson / zoom- Join us for poetry, prayer, and conversation.
- Zoom link and password required.
- WORSHIP and VETERANS DAY OBSERVANCE
10:30am • Jackson Community Church & Zoom- Music by Sharon Novak
- Message by Rev Gail Doktor
- Veterans Day Observance
- Novembering to rememeber loved ones by name or with objects & images
- Zoom link and password required.
- HOSPITALITY
11:30am • JCC Parish Hall- Hospitality after Church
- APPRECIATIVE INQUIRY- Discovery & Dreaming Together • Facilitated by Janet Bergman Wilkinson
12:30-2:45pm • JCC- Jackson Community Church invites you to participate in planning for the church’s long-term success. The first phase of our newly initiated ‘appreciative inquiry’ will include multiple forms of engagement: focus group meetings, a community survey, and several full community discovery and visioning sessions, facilitated by a professional consultant.
- We’ll ‘explore the best of what is’ in our church today, and then build from those strengths and emerging opportunities to imagine our future. The community planning activities of the coming few months will become the basis of our church’s long term strategic plan, we hope your voice will be included!
- Scheduled Appreciative Inquiry Discovery Sessions:
- Sun, Nov 12: Lunch & Appreciative Inquiry – 12:30-2:45pm
- Sun, Nov 19: Harvest Potluck & Appreciative Inquiry – 10:30-12:45pm
- Zoom session to be scheduled
- Facilitator: Janet Wilkinson is an organizational development consultant and certified Appreciative Inquiry Practitioner based in nearby Madison NH. She has over 20 years of experience leading, co-leading and facilitating an array of organizations and initiatives through periods of growth and change.
- Community Event: OPEN HOURS @ Jackson Historical Society
1-3pm • Jackson Historical SocietyAlso open by appointment.- More info: https://www.jacksonhistory.org/
- White Mountain Art Sale
- The Jackson Historical Society is holding its 21st annual White Mountain Art Sale. There are currently over 50 items from private collectors, primarily 19thcentury paintings. To see the online catalog, go to https://www.jacksonhistory.org/catalog.html. Items are available to purchase as they arrive, so check the catalog frequently to see new additions.
- The Society is open Saturdays and Sundays 1-3pm If you are interested in a painting, the Society can open by appointment. Contact info@jacksonhistory.org
- Community Event: MUSIC AROUND TOWN
- Shannon Door: Mitch Alden • 6-9pm
- Red Parka: Blue Sunday with Bonnie Edwards & Practical Cats • 5-8pm